If you want to know how to be happy, the first question you need to ask yourself is what is your blueprint or how have you been conditioned since birth.
The old scenario of life is, grow up, go to school, get to university, get a job, get married, have children and die. Mission accomplished.
Most of us go in this exact system and never feel fulfilled or happy their entire lives. Because we are living according to the system, how society thinks we should live our lives.
And most people think that happiness is buying a smartphone, buying a new car, having a new girlfriend, going to a new club, listening to a new album, acquiring a new house etc.
But these are in fact instant gratification. These are not lasting happiness, these are the short-term adrenaline rush and what’s new will soon become old again.
The old system wants us to have jobs in big corporations, there is nothing wrong in that of course because it will support and make you and your family a living.
But real happiness comes from within, when you discover your passion, what you really love to do.
The places you would love to experience and the feeling you will get in these places, those souvenirs and moments. That’s fulfilment and happiness.
Someone asked me once, what is the one thing that you can tell me about happiness. I said to him progress.
Even if you have not reached the destination, the improvement, the journey will make you happy because you are moving forward. Do more of what you love to do and move forward.
Your happiness is inside, not outside and all you need to do is feel it. It is easy to blame others for your unhappiness, but ultimately you are responsible for your life.
You can either change what you feel is not right or you can dwell on it for the rest of your life and live miserably.
Another way to feel happy right now with all your spirit is to adopt an attitude of gratitude. What are you grateful for?
Right now I am grateful that being able to deliver information digitally around the world and reach millions of people.
You can be grateful for being alive, being here on this planet. Having food and a roof over your head.
Having people, you love around you. If you adopt this attitude of gratitude and appreciate what you already have you will feel happy every single day.
Make a decision now to be happy, feel it, live it and enjoy it.